The A Project

It’s important to know that pornography most often does not depict reality. It may lead to unrealistic expectations about sex and sexuality. What you should know about pornography is that:

First: the models or actors in pornographic images are often chosen for abnormally large sex organs and breasts. Their bodies are cosmetically, and often surgically or hormonally, enhanced. Pornographic photos are often altered in the printing or photographic process. Hair and blemishes are removed. Musculature and facial features are highlighted. And teeth are straightened and whitened. You can have healthy sex lives without looking like this.

Second: in staging sexually explicit scenes for the camera, models and actors often take fairly uncomfortable positions to allow their sex organs to be seen while having sex. This makes the sex acts themselves quite unrealistic.

Third: The videos that you watch take many hours of casting that get edited to become the videos that they are. Men are made to look like they can last with an erection for hours and that they should not cater to pleasuring women.

Fourth:  a lot of pornography is tailored for individuals who have quite a narrow range of audiences. Most mainstream porn is created to please men and the porn that is made “for her” is usually erotic and very soft porn assuming that is womens sole pleasure from watching porn.

Its important to realize that many healthy, caring adults use pornography. Many people use it to enhance their sex lives knowing that it is much more about fantasy than it is about reality.